Modesty is one of the traditional virtues the great sage Confucius (551-479B.C) advocated. Although a great scholar, Confucius admonished his students, "When walking in the company of three, there must be one I can learn from"(�����У�������ʦ��San ren xing, bi you wo shi yan). To Confucius modesty and humility are required qualities for a society to sustain itself while pride will lead to destruction.

    The typical example of the modesty is demonstrated by the host to his visitors. He will apologize the ill-preparation and small quantity of his food, which turns out to be sumptuous banquet. And the modesty is also shown when the Chinese accept compliments. They always respond to compliments with "Nali nali. (literally where?Where?)"-figuratively meaning, "I have done nothing to deserve your compliment."

   Another common way to show the Chinese modesty is that the Chinese often politely refuse offers of drinks, refreshments, gifts and other favors two or three times before graciously accepting them. Their modesty requires them not to open the gifts before the sender.

   Their modesty requires them not to challenge but to respect, which results in a low profile of Chinese. This is sometimes misunderstood as no ambition or competitive spirit. Their modesty leads them more to group-consciousness rather than to individual-consciousness.